Today alone, I have seen 3 anniversary posts, 2 engagement posts, and 5 my hubby is so awesome posts on social media. PLEASE do not get me wrong. I AM truly beyond happy for anyone that finds love and is able to have someone in their life that loves them. It honestly gives me hope that one day I will find that.
These are the posts that piss me off. "My husband never buys me flowers anymore." "My boyfriend just watches football all day" "UGH... what does it take for him to take out the damn garbage"
Here is the deal ladies. (and men) APPRECIATE what you have. Does your husband/boyfriend/partner/whatever tell you they love you? Do they hold your hand and hug you? Are they there to hold you at night? Spend more time complimenting and appreciating and caring for your loved one instead of bashing and insulting them ... on social media... in person... to your family etc.
Time is precious. Tomorrow is not promised to anyone. Is taking the garbage out yourself instead of complaining about it THAT BAD? Why don't you watch football with them and do something he enjoys. When is the last time you bought something for them that they enjoy? Think of life WITHOUT that person, and how bad that would be. Life with them is amazing, cherish it.
Monday, September 29, 2014
Wednesday, September 10, 2014
3 Year Mark....
It is unbelievable to me that 3 years has passed since my life was flipped upside down.
On 9/11/2011 I believe I was at the lowest point (or at least I hope it was) I will ever be in my life. My heart had been ripped to shreds and tossed aside to rot away. I cried more in the days that followed more than I have the rest of my adult life. My heart was hollow and empty, my mind was full of whys, hows, whens, and ifs.
On 9/11/2014 I will wake up in the morning smiling. Strong, happy, confident, satisfied and content. Do I have everything in life I would like? With the exception of very little, I can proudly say yes. It will take a special person to come into my life to make it possibly better than it is now. Because in my heart I know I am full of mistakes and hopes, love and doubts, smiles and tears, happiness and stress. Because I am alive.... I am well, I am a mommy to my four baby boys. I am a one of a kind woman.... I can say that clearly and proudly.
Here is to the next 3 years and what may be in my future!!! Hope everyone has an amazing day.... Be Happy, Be Proud, Expect great things...... you have breath.... breath deep and know that life is always a blessing!
On 9/11/2011 I believe I was at the lowest point (or at least I hope it was) I will ever be in my life. My heart had been ripped to shreds and tossed aside to rot away. I cried more in the days that followed more than I have the rest of my adult life. My heart was hollow and empty, my mind was full of whys, hows, whens, and ifs.
On 9/11/2014 I will wake up in the morning smiling. Strong, happy, confident, satisfied and content. Do I have everything in life I would like? With the exception of very little, I can proudly say yes. It will take a special person to come into my life to make it possibly better than it is now. Because in my heart I know I am full of mistakes and hopes, love and doubts, smiles and tears, happiness and stress. Because I am alive.... I am well, I am a mommy to my four baby boys. I am a one of a kind woman.... I can say that clearly and proudly.
Here is to the next 3 years and what may be in my future!!! Hope everyone has an amazing day.... Be Happy, Be Proud, Expect great things...... you have breath.... breath deep and know that life is always a blessing!
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