Friday, January 18, 2013

Can I Sit There....


This morning I had one of those moments of not embarrassment but of "duh...babble babble..."

My oldest son was receiving an award at school.  So his dad and I met at the auditorium and were sitting together waiting for it to start.  Mike got up to use the restroom and I sat their waiting, just looking at social media on my phone.    A lady came up to me and asked if she could sit next to me...  my response was like this....  "uh... well.... my... well my.... ex... well.... my sons dad is sitting there"   I felt so dumb!   When he returned I was laughing to myself and he got a good laugh out of the thing as well.   I told him from now on I will just use the term "baby daddy".    It is a small joke with us, because when I call or text his phone "baby mama" comes up!  

Things like this will continue to come up in our lives.  People will ask if he is my husband, or if I am his wife.  People will want to know things that are none of their business, but I know this.  He and I are friends and will be able to laugh off all this silliness that comes our way in the future! 


Thursday, January 3, 2013

It has been a while....

It has been a while since I have posted/blogged.  Part of it was I couldn't remember how!! LOL!

Well now it is 2013, Happy New Year.... and here is to Happiness in 2013! 


I am just going to write briefly on what my goals are for this year.  Not resolutions, not promises, but just goals, things I have my mind on that I wish to accomplish this year.

#1 - Get divorced.  Yes we are still married and not really sure why, just haven't taken the time to do any paperwork, and it has worked for us so far, but we both know it needs to happen.

#2 - Get healthier.  No, not loose a million pounds and starve myself, just be healthier, mind, body and spirit.  In the month of January, I am choosing to drink more water and keeping a log of how much I am drinking.  Next month I will pick another healthy change in my life.

#3 - Spend more time WITH my kiddos instead of around them.  I need to spend less time on useless things like social media and tv and spend quality time with my kids.  My life is consumed with work, cleaning, dinner, homework, laundry, making lunches etc that when I have "free" time at night, all I want to do is veg out.... but I need to choose to use that time to play a game with my kids, lay down and cuddle with them and watch a movie, read a book etc.  They are only young once, I don't want to miss out on anything.

#4 - I want to do at least 3 5k's, 1 10k, 1 mud run and another shot at the Nike Women's 1/2 Marathon this year.  

#5 - Live my life to make myself proud in all I do.  As a woman, a mom, a sister, a daughter, an employee, a friend.  

I wish the whole 4 people that read this the Happiest of Happiest New Year!

T